Biology, Bias & Stories – What Truly Shapes Our Brain?

What comes to mind when you hear “female brain”? Discover how culture, bias, and biology shape our understanding — and how stories influence us

Part 1/4 🧠Does something called “the female brain” really exist?

Theme: SEE – Uncover what has built our assumptions


What comes to mind when you hear “female brain”?

Something soft? Emotion-driven? Multitasking? Or mysterious?
What if none of that is actually true – and what if the image we carry is shaped more by culture than by science?

We all carry stories about what it means to be a woman. These stories come from thousands of years of tradition, mythology, religious texts, fairy tales and… well, pseudoscience.
And they shape how we see ourselves – and our brains.


What does the science say?

Neurologically, male and female brains are almost identical.
You cannot determine the sex of a brain just by looking at it. And the differences in volume, structure, or activity are so small that they overlap in 90–95% of cases.

So why do we believe otherwise?

The short answer: bias.
Historically, medical research has largely ignored the female body – both literally and symbolically. When female brains have been studied, it’s often through the lens of how they differ from a male standard.
And if you go looking for differences – you’ll find them.
It’s like evaluating fish by their ability to climb trees.


Example: A room full of brains

Imagine walking into a room with 100 human brains. You’re allowed to inspect them.
Weigh them. View them on MRI.

Question: Can you tell which belonged to women, and which to men?

Answer: No. Not even the most experienced neurosurgeon could.


So what shapes women’s brains – if not sex?

Here’s where it gets interesting. The brain is plastic – shaped by what we do, think, feel, and believe.
And girls are shaped from early on by:

  • How they are spoken to (“you’re so sweet,” “you’re such a good girl,” “you need to be nice”)
  • What they’re allowed to play with
  • What they’re expected to handle – or not
  • How their emotions are interpreted (“hysterical,” “too sensitive,” “must be PMS”)

All of this creates pathways in the brain.
Not because the brain is female, but because it is human – moldable and responsive to its environment.


Final reflection

The female brain exists – but not as a biological mystery.
It exists as a mirror of society, an echo of stories, expectations, and lived context.

To understand the female brain, we must understand the whole life of the woman – from biology to bias.

Some perhaps helpful thoughts to explore:

  • What ideas about women’s intellectual ability did I grow up with?
  • How do these ideas affect what I dare to try, feel, or believe about myself?
  • What would happen if I began to see my brain as neutral – and full of potential?

Vaka says: “Watch what you’ve been taught to believe. So much of what you call truth is simply repetition with a confident voice.”

Våga says: “Dare to challenge the stories that have shaped you. Even the ones that feel like home.”

Vila says: “You don’t have to fight to reclaim your mind. Begin by softening around what isn’t true.”


🤸‍♀️~It takes courage to see, and practice to grow.~🌳

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